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Wednesday, February 4, 2026

Baguio has full of believed curses either love life or friendship, I have experienced it. Have you experience it?

Since young I already knew baguio is the summer capital of the philippines due to it's comforting temperature. I mean who among us never experienced Baguio in their whole time especially if you live from the north area. My mother's side is from Nagtrigoan Pinili, Ilocos Norte. I studied my college in Mariano Marcos State University inn Batac City, Divine Word College, Laoag. North part of Luzon is really a big part of my life. Since college I know to myself I want to move and explore Baguio further but since it's my parents decision where I should go. I didn't have my own money yet at that time but since now at my age I already have my resources and I have my own decisions for my life I followed what my heart. I have that vision in myself I would move to Baguio City for good. It was cleaer to me that I'll be managing a bed and breakfast serving guests, cooking for them simplease dishes and making sure they are all comfortable living in a transient house I manage and my dog is with me, that simple but I don't know when it will happen I just know to myself that is where I see myself retiring and getting old. Way back December of 2021 I was asked by different group of friends to come with them and travel to Baguio since the pandemic has been lifted and tourist are welcomed to Baguio City. The first group where only four of us would go they know some discounted place where to stay. Then another group within the condo where my friend and I stayed. The first group seems have no plans to persue since Decemeber normally is then busiest season for work. While the friends within the condo already booked in Moldex at Marcos highway Baguio at that time I was torned to join them since I was financially challenged. My friend was so generous to offer me to pay in staggard for our expenses just so I can go with them we were five (5). The first two is in relationship while the other two were ex's. I was single and no commitements at that time.
The curse of Baguio striked on me and my friend in Igorot Stone Castle. There was this part where my friend wants me to take him a photo but since it was tiring all day for wandering around the tourist places I was tired to take the photo so I declined his request since I also know I don't have th skills in taking good photos. so I said, "Magpakuha ka na lang picture sa jowa mo kasi for sure ayaw mo ng magiging kuha ko". Then he started to show how disappointed he is by not doing his request. I tried to stop him and ask him to alright I'll take a photo but I guest we're all tired for any arguments so we all just went to silence while traveling from places to places after that. No one wants to talk. I was ignored and I ignored them back. I was really a tiring day for all of us. It was a terrible experience for me and my friend we didn't talke for mabe a year or more but we are okay now. We just let our attitudes pass and chill for the time we are not talking with each other.
I know a lot of relationships are challenged when you travel it might show your true selves when you are tired, lost and hungry. That's the test of real friendship and any relationships. Some might broke up with thier relationships some might get stronger. Let's not associate or blame the place it is our own decision to break up or end friendship and not because of Baguio City curse or any places curse.